A Cowboy's Life: Patient Parenting - Is That Possible?

Patient Parenting - Is That Possible?

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Is it possible to always keep your cool around toddlers? No, the answer is no! But, since toddlers require parents to have endless amounts of patience we don't have a choice but to try our hardest.

I am not the most patient person, but when it comes to my little guy I try to be as patient as can be. It's not always easy, but here a few ways that help me a more patient mom.

Plan ahead. We all know that getting kids loaded into the car or grocery shopping takes longer with kids in tow. So by planning to take your time at the grocery store instead of trying to get in and out in 20 minutes will help you not feel rushed and constantly trying to hurry the kids. (Why is it they walk as slow as possible when we are in a hurry?)

See it from the child's view point. Of course it's going to take a toddler awhile to put his clothes in the dirty clothes hamper or to clean his room. Instead of being impatient because it takes awhile, encourage them for actually helping. Whatever the activity they are doing, they are still learning from the experience and it's worth a little extra of your time.

Breathe. Just take a deep breathe and go in the other room for a few minutes.

Play with your kids. Having fun and joining in on playtime can be fun and a stress reliever. It's also hard to be patient if all you are doing is monitoring and telling them what to do.

How do you keep from losing your patience with your toddler?  Check out the other mama's blogs for their tips.  And be sure to link up with us below if you also have a post on this topic.

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5 comments

  1. Oh these are so great!! I think I could definitely grow in the Plan Ahead realm -- even in anticipating the little guy to get hungry and to bring a snack :) Thanks for hosting this link-up :) Looks like you're doing a great job as a mama!
    ~Andrea

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  2. Yes, yes ,yes! You said it perfectly! I need to remember to view certain moments through Mia's eyes! Thank you for the reminders!!

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  3. Great tips! I do not have kids yet, and have so much respect for those who do or work with children!
    www.amemoryofus.com

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  4. it is SO hard to stay patient with your toddlers, especially when they get into their little independent phases (we are currently there!). i try to stay as calm and patient as possible but sometimes i get crazed! thanks for sharing these tips, they will sure be helpful! :)

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